The Other Side of the Sea

I do not know what it looked like on the boat that night as recorded in the Gospel of Mark after Jesus said to His disciples on the Sea of Galilee, "Let us go over to the other side." It must have been much worse than this...



No fancy all-weather gear, no helmets, no safety harnesses, no Global Positioning Systems, no mast-mounted video cameras recording their courage for posterity and their hordes of adulating fans around the world. Just a furious squall, the disciples absolutely scared half out of their wits, and Jesus in the stern, asleep on a cushion. When the crew awoke Him saying, "Don't you care if we drown?" as in, "Why did you tell us to cross the sea today? You know all things. Surely you could have chosen a better course for us to sail...!" He rebuked them for their lack of faith, and then calmed the raging seas and howling wind with three little words, "Quiet! Be still!"

Teresa and I once crossed some thiry miles or so of the open Pacific Ocean in a small ferry boat with waves running upwards of twelve feet on average, but the worse weather systems I have ever encountered have been the howling storms of my own soul, those moments when I wondered where God was in the midest of my circumstances, and why He had allowed them to develop. Again and again, though, I have heard the Master say, "Peace! Be still!" He will do the same for you if you will bring your anxious heart to Him. He is bigger than any tempest you may face and He has promised He will never leave you or forsake you, come what may...!

"35 That day when evening came, he said to his disciples, “Let us go over to the other side.” 36 Leaving the crowd behind, they took him along, just as he was, in the boat. There were also other boats with him. 37 A furious squall came up, and the waves broke over the boat, so that it was nearly swamped. 38 Jesus was in the stern, sleeping on a cushion. The disciples woke him and said to him, “Teacher, don’t you care if we drown?” 39 He got up, rebuked the wind and said to the waves, “Quiet! Be still!” Then the wind died down and it was completely calm. 40 He said to his disciples, “Why are you so afraid? Do you still have no faith?” 41 They were terrified and asked each other, “Who is this? Even the wind and the waves obey him!” " (Mark 4:35-41, NIV)

Parenting in the Midst of Tragedy

John Piper is not only a famous author and pastor in Minneapolis, but also a parent. His blog post entitled, Putting My Daughter to Bed Two Hours After the Bridge Collapsed, bears powerful witness, not only to some deep theological truths, but also to the sovereign way in which God set up his family's evening devotions, moments after devasting calamity struck their city.

It is never easy to answer hard questions, especially when they come in the midst of great emotion that touches even the very young. God is faithful, though, to use His Word and His Spirit to help us when we need it the most!

The Porn Myth (Challies / Wolf)

Tim Challies is a Christian web designer from Canada of the Reformed persuasion whose blog, www.challies.com, is widely read. Today, he posted some thoughts on a recent New York Magazine article by feminist Naomi Wolf entitled, "The Porn Myth."

Midway through his musings, Tim writes,

Feminists taught that women needed to go from being the hunted to being the hunters, to transition to the role of the aggressor in relationships. They were to throw off inhibition and try to beat men at their own game.

But Wolf, and many other feminists, have had to rethink their position a little bit. Once advocates of pornography, they have had to take an honest look at how pornography has affected our culture. "The Porn Myth" does just this. If you read this site often you know how much I delight in finding articles in secular publications that just say what the Bible has been saying all along. In many ways, this is just such an article.

Wolf begins by saying that some feminists used to be concerned that the widespread acceptance of pornography would turn men into beasts, causing them to rape and pillage women. Years later she says, "the effect is not making men into raving beasts. On the contrary: The onslaught of porn is responsible for deadening male libido in relation to real women, and leading men to see fewer and fewer women as "porn-worthy." Far from having to fend off porn-crazed young men, young women are worrying that as mere flesh and blood, they can scarcely get, let alone hold, their attention." So porn is not causing men to see women as objects of unbridled lust (though in some cases I know this has happened). Rather, porn is causing men to become bored with sex and bored with real women. "For most of human history, erotic images have been reflections of, or celebrations of, or substitutes for, real naked women. For the first time in human history, the images' power and allure have supplanted that of real naked women. Today, real naked women are just bad porn." That last sentence is shocking for its forthrightness and for its implications. Men who immerse themselves in pornography know that real women compare unfavorably with the stars of their pornographic movies. Those women have perfect bodies, no inhibitions and are willing to express pleasure in any act, no matter how vulgar or demeaning. They exist only to please their men.

A bit later, he pens,

When I speak with young men these days I find that, almost invariably, they are recovering porn addicts. Since I wasn't born yesterday I take this to mean "I'm addicted to pornography but can't quite admit it." I try to warn them that there are consequences to this sin. Of course I tell them that God is dishonored by this sin, but they are Christian guys and they already know this. So I tell them also that this sin is going to have consequences in their lives that go far beyond what they do when nobody else is looking. For example, addiction to pornography will not disappear when they fall in love and commit to marriage. Rather, pornography will be a destructive force they bring into that marriage. They may find that they are enraptured with a wife for a few months, but the addiction, if not conquered, will come back. It will haunt the marriage until it is properly dealt with. And when pornography returns, that wife suddenly won't look so wonderful. She will have spots and blemishes and stretch marks. There will be things she will not want to do in bed. She will have nights when she does not want to have sex. Suddenly the women in pornography will look pretty good in comparison as they are always eager, always beautiful, always available.

But these women are but a sinful fantasy. They beckon like the captivity in Egypt. Pornography looks at the heavenly manna God has provided and looks instead to the slavery of sin. And the sin somehow compares favorably. Real naked women become just bad porn.

Sin is subtle; it is powerful; it is captivating. Even people who care little for the Bible are having to admit that it was right all along. And we know from the Bible that only God offers true freedom.

Well said, Tim...!

To read the rest of his post, click here.

To sample another of his posts on a very different topic (evolution), click here.